Saturday, February 28, 2009

Dealing with Divorce Part 2

GOSSIP:
I told you that I was going to deal with this and I'm gonna hit it head on and hit it first!
I think it's BIG! Real big! And there's some things that I didn't know that I wish I had known! And what good are my mistakes if I can't help some one else learn not to make the same ones that I did!

First,
You DO NOT have to talk about your problems.
Now I know what Oprah says, but Oprah also has diet programs too and we see how well they work, right? Okay then! :-)

No, no, no....don't even try the "I'm a woman, I gotta talk" thing! Listen, Eve was a woman, she talked and listened and sinned! Now, if you only take my advice on ONE thing, take it on this; if you are going to talk, go to someone who is a paid counselor whom is bound by law, to keep quiet! Because I do not care who you talk to in your own circle, they COULD talk and that one talk could devastate your life later!

See this verse? James 4:11 Speak not evil one of another, brethren. Do you know in the Greek this means not to say something that would even cast a shadow on some one else?

Now, I know this is soooo tough when you are hurting and or you are angry. I know you feel like you have to talk, but you must think about the consequences.

First, your children may hear things that they don't need to know. Remember, parental respect is important. Authority is important. If you can keep that in check, it is best for the children.

Second, there could be hope in the future of restoration and you don't need to add to the wounds that a divorce can make!

Third, even if you think you can do it without the first and second thing being an issue...you need to listen to me on this one! You NEVER EVER EVER can tell what some one else will do with your words. You know that they could always repeat them but that is NOT the worst of what they could do. I speak from experience here. Your words can be twisted and exaggerated to a proportion that you can't even recognize! They can be twisted and used against you later- even in court! And then, if you dare to question those who do such with your words, do you know what they might say??? "You're the one who told me that!" You canNOT trust others! You can't even trust yourself sometimes. You trust God! That's it! A divorce is between two people! Not the world! Even if the other party talks and talks and talks...you be quiet and wait for your turn to answer. If it never comes, it may end up making them just look foolish for discussing certain things. ...But again, in the midst of the divorce, remember the verse that says 'love covereth a multitude of sins'! Even if its only the love for your children that you can grasp, love them enough to keep quiet about their other parent. There will likely come a time later, when it's time for your side, even with the children.

Fourth, you can make yourself look silly to some people. How so? Well, if you've been putting up with an abusive person or a cheat, you look like an enabler. That's not attractive. Weakness is not attractive! And if you are talking about very personal and private issues, you may look just silly! Haven't you ever overheard someone going on and on about something that no one else should have heard and thought "they shouldn't be talking about that"? Don't think they won't think the same thing of you! There's a place to air this, with God and maybe some in the court...but not in Walmart. And not in front of the whole church. Listen, you walk in the strength of the Lord and if you can't find it, FAKE IT! For the sake of your kids- fake it! (The times I didn't; I regret. The times I did- I feel even stronger about because I don't have to feel embarrassed or ashamed.) Save it until the kids are asleep or until you have to tell it to a judge and I promise, you won't be sorry that you did.

I'll stop there. But remember; you put strength on. It is a choice. No one can take it from you nor can they give it to you. You make the choice to be strong enough to 'just do it'! Keep your head up, even if you have been guilty yourself. You walk as a strong person and parent in front of your kids. It will pay off! It will!

Dealing with Divorce part 1

First I have to say that I don't think divorce is God's highest plan for man. However, neither do I believe it is an 'unpardonable sin'. I feel like I can back both thoughts from the Bible and I may explain further sometime but I won't debate it.


That said, divorce is not something that I really wanted to deal with and it's not something that I am proud of but it is in my past, it is in my family, and...I've had to deal with it!


I felt led by the Lord to deal with this issue to hopefully help and encourage others but this will not be a gossip board/post! If you want me to pray for you- I will -but gossip will be one of the issues that I deal with in "Dealing with Divorce".


I've learned a lot in dealing with this horrible thing called divorce. I've learned how it feels personally and I've learned how it hurts children. I've learned that people can be foolish and selfish but I've also learned that I don't have to be. I've learned some 'rules of engagement' that the court system doesn't understand and will advise the opposite. I've learned to help my kids and to put them above 'the issues'. I've learned some things about the court system. I've learned from my mistakes. I've learned some things from others mistakes.

And maybe, just maybe, you can learn something from me! :-)

Wednesday, February 25, 2009

Sloppy Joe Cups

1st, I know this isn't the most healthy meal...but it's really frugal!


Canned biscuits are really frugal and super fun to work with!


I've made meat pies and baked them...DH likes fruit pies with them!


But here, simply press them in sprayed muffin tins.


Top with Sloppy Joe meat (ground beef, chopped onions, maybe some chopped bell peppers, cook, drain, add ketchup, salt and pepper).


Bake as per time on the biscuit can. The biscuits get kind of crispy. (Could make pizza cups this way, mmm!)


Served here with steamed broccoli and homemade pear sauce. Oh, and jelly for the extra biscuits!


This meal costs between $3 and $4!

Do U Carrot All 4 Carrots?

We love carrots at my house! We cut them up in sticks and eat them raw, we cook them in roast, chicken dishes, we cook them sweet with butter and molasses, and we cook them up like this... in butter with parsley! Just steam them in a minimum amount of water until they just begin to soften, toss in a 1/4 cup butter, and as much or as little parsley as you like!

I served these with a completely made up from scratch, chicken dish!

I used chicken stock, thickened with a little cornstarch, some cooked whole wheat noodles with celery, leftover meat from roasted chicken, some spices, and topped with cheese!



Guest Post...


This is my
Kitchen Tip For Tuesday!!
I think you will all enjoy this special Guest Post

from Brandy, THE PRUDENT HOMEMAKER


Living on our Food Storage: Our Family’s Experience

Donna wrote to me and told me that she had several people ask her how I stocked my “walk-in pantry” like I did.

First of all, I’d like to explain that I certainly didn’t always have this nifty air-conditioned, insulated pantry in my garage.

However, this is the second one I’ve had.

I’ll explain.

This is the second house that we have owned. In our first house, we had a pantry with a door in the kitchen. It had a lot of wasted space in between shelves. When I first started working on filling it, my husband realized that the shelves weren’t going to hold the weight of all those cans of refried beans I had bought on sale for 33 cents a can (those beans were my first big purchase; I bought about 6 cases of them when they went on sale for that price! I knew it would be a lot of cheap meals of burritos).

So, my sweet husband decided he would figure out how to use the space better. First, he took out the existing shelves and replaced them with the same kind of shelves that just happened to be 2 inches deeper. These came right to the inside door frame. He put them closer together, and I figured out what would go on each shelf. I planned a couple of short shelves for cans, where I would stack cans of beans no more than 3 high.

Then, he used 2 of the original shelves (that weren’t as deep) up high in the cabinet. There was all this wasted space above the door, but I had to be able to reach it. Up there went things like big tall boxes of cereal—skinny, lightweight items. In between I also put boxes of Rice a Roni bought on sale, and on the bottom on the floor I kept large containers of oil. I had one shelf for baking goods as well—flour, baking powder, etc.

As I kept buying good sales, though, we realized this space wasn’t big enough to enable us to really stock up. On the back side of my pantry was a coat closet the same size as my pantry. I live in Las Vegas, and most of the year, I don’t need a coat. I moved the coats to the bedroom closets. My husband put in extra shelves in this closet as well, but not quite as far in; I still needed to keep the vacuum in there. I started keeping canned soups and more cereal in that closet.

Somewhere along the way, I got a Sam’s Club card. When I saw the price of pasta, I bought lots of pasta. I got an under the bed box and put it under my bed and filled it with pasta.

Then I started buying rice at Sam’s Club, in the big bags. The price was so much better than the price at the grocery store that I thought we could save a lot of money. I put the bags of rice up high in my bedroom closet.

During this time, my husband had built an office in half of our garage. He put a window a/c unit in one wall, and he worked in there. Eventually he was able to move to a large location, and I suddenly had an empty room with an a/c unit in it.

At that point, we bought shelves. We tried a couple of kinds, but in the end what worked the best for us were called Gorilla shelves. They are the metal shelves you see in the pictures of my pantry. They can hold the weight of as many cans as I want to put on them without bending.

At that point, I started really stocking up whenever we were able to, and I worked on getting a year’s supply for us. I placed my first order with Walton Feed; it was my first time buying wheat. I ordered with a group of people in order to get a discount on shipping. I bought a wheat grinder as well.

Why does having all this food matter, anyway?

Because for the last two years, that’s what we’ve been eating.

You see, my husband works in Real Estate. Like any sales job, we only make money when we have sales. Sometimes, we have enough sales to cover everything, and sometimes we don’t. For the last couple of years, as the housing market has been on a sharp decline in Las Vegas, my husband has watched his salary drop in half. This does not leave me enough to buy food most of the time. I always knew this was a possibility, as we often needed to rely on what we had on the shelves, depending on the paycheck, but I never dreamed it would be a constant for more than two years.

Well, we moved into a bigger house to accommodate our growing family. This house had a three car garage. We built a room into the garage for a pantry, since we had liked it so much before. We turned our pantry into a mud room, and I filled the coat closet with extra shelves and put my sewing fabric in it.

I stocked up at our big case lot sale before we moved in, and shortly after that, I placed a second order with Walton Feed to get our pantry filled up. I filled in the missing basics—oats, powdered milk, more wheat, and things like dried celery and carrots, pearled barley and powdered eggs.

It’s funny how things work out. No sooner did I do all that and move into my new house did real estate start its decline. It went rolling forth at a rapid pace, with houses dropping $10,000 a month (and they still are, 2 years later) in value.

And suddenly, our income stopped, just like that. It continued for months.

I was so grateful for that food! I started learning how to do things I hadn’t done much before. I started really working on making bread, because if I didn’t bake it, we didn’t have it.

We ran out of Rice a Roni and cold cereal. I started cooking breakfasts and figured out how to make my own rice mixes. I learned how to make yogurt from powdered milk.

I prayed that we would not lose our house, and that we would be able to buy some more food at the case lot sale in the fall (they have them twice a year here).

Our families were kind. My parents went on vacation and left us the food in their freezer. My in-laws gave us some money to get peaches and pears to can, as we had eaten ours. Those two fruits, along with some canned mandarin oranges, were our only fruits for most of that year. (Pears were on sale that year for .25 a pound. I canned a year’s worth of pears, including sugar and lids, for $65. $10 of it was the 25lbs of sugar I used).

God was good to us. We had a sale just in time to not lose our home, and there was enough that I felt that I could buy some things at the case lot sale. I bought canned pineapple, green beans, corn, mandarin oranges, and flour. I had no idea when I would be able to buy food again.

Christmas came, and through the kindness of others we were given some gift cards to local stores. I got diapers (I had finally run out after months, and I had three in diapers during that year), cheese, eggs, oil (we ran out of oil), and some apples. It’s been over a year and I still remember what I bought! We used a gift card to a grocery store to get some meat when it went on sale in January.

Lots of other things happened during that first year living on our food storage. I became pregnant. My daughter broke her arm (we do not have insurance), and my husband sold his motorcycle (our only other vehicle besides our car) to pay the mortgage. We planted a garden and not much grew. My sweet midwife (who had delivered my previous four children) delivered my fifth child out of the kindness of her heart.

We have had more sales since then, and for a few months last year I was able to really stock up on some things. I didn’t buy just whatever I felt like, though. I bought oil (again), flour, sugar, and canning lids. I bought cheese, margarine, potatoes, sour cream and eggs. I planted a garden again, and prayed over it. This time, we had much more to eat from our garden, and we rejoiced in having fresh food from our garden.

Things were still tight. My in-laws, my grandmother, and my parents brought us some things occasionally. They also helped us to get peaches and pears for canning. I couldn’t afford the case lot sales, but my mother bought us a case of corn and a case of mandarin oranges.

November came and we were blessed to be able to stock up again—I bought 200 lbs of potatoes at .26 a pound, and I got turkeys for .33 a pound. I was able to get a few other things as well.

During the last two years, we have also been able to eat thanks to the kindness of others. We were given apples on more than one occasion. Friends from far and near shared with us. People who were moving gave us canned goods and foods from their freezers that they didn’t want to move. Many blessings came to us from others that helped us in other ways as well. The Lord let us know that He was taking care of us, and showed us how we are always in His debt.

I have run out of things. I ran out of toothpaste a few times. Somehow a gift card made its way to us, and I was able to get some more toothpaste. I had a good amount of toiletries saved up already. If there was a sale, I would buy as many as I could afford. I stacked them under bathroom sinks in rows like at the store. I have not couponed much, but I am seeing that there are coupons for soaps and shampoos and lotions that I use, so I am using those to stock up on those things that are low if a chance to shop comes along. I am still using lotions I bought 3 years ago; I am so thankful for them!

Do I try to continuously stock up? Yes, and my own opinion is that everyone should. I think some hard times are coming quickly for our country, and I wish I could convince everyone to stock up. I can't continuously stock up now, but I'm glad I did before because it meant that I have food now. If you are able, though, you can decide to buy a certain amount of food each shopping trip to store. If $5 a week is all that is all you can spare, spend $5 a week. Buy sugar or flour or oil that week. If canned goods are on sale, buy more of those. If you start only buying things when they are at the lowest sales price and stock up, pretty soon you will only have to buy when things are at their lowest prices, and it will give you more money to buy more food. Everyone has a different grocery budget, so how much you spend on stocking up each month will depend on your budget. I would encourage you to stock up on the basics. Don't worry about getting fruit-roll ups on sale and with a coupon for 37 cents. Spend your 37 cents on something of substance: buy salt, flour, oil, rice, oats, pasta, sugar. (By the way, if you have a Sam's Club card, you can buy 4 lbs of salt for 87 cents; it is 50 cents for a little over 1 lb at Walmart. Please look around and make up a price book so that your money will buy you as much food as possible).

It’s important to store the basics. I’ll never go back to buying cold cereal. It’s not worth having my children hungry again before I’ve even had a chance to finish the breakfast dishes. Another thing I’ll never do is think that the 10 for $10 sales on Rice a Roni are a good deal. In order to feed my family, I need 3 boxes. At $1 each, that’s $3, just for the side dish! Making my own from rice bought in bulk helps me to keep our costs down much more; most of our family meals are $5 or less for the entire meal.

Because we have run out of some things, if I get a chance to spend $20 on food, I spend it very carefully.

One thing I buy is potatoes. Per pound, potatoes are cheaper than anything else—cheaper than beans, flour, meat, etc. If I watch carefully, I can get potatoes on sale as well. I want my money to go as far as possible.

Another thing we have done is restock the basics. If I know I can go to the store, I don’t buy bread and milk, even though I might like to. I buy oil, because I don’t know when I’ll get to go to the store again, and I don’t want to run out before that time. We currently use about 1 gallon of oil a month, because of all the baking and other cooking that I do. I usually make French Bread, which doesn’t call for any oil, but if your bread uses oil, you might need more oil in your storage.

What are the basics? Wheat, flour, oil, sugar, honey, salt, yeast, oats, rice, beans, pasta, and fruits and vegetables. And chocolate. These things will keep you alive, and most of them can be stored for a long time. What was that about chocolate? Oh, yes, let me explain: you can never have too much chocolate in your food storage. Cocoa powder, dark chocolate, white chocolate, chocolate chips of all varieties . . . .

No matter what you are storing, it needs to stay cool. Constantly flucuating temperatures are not good for food. The cooler it is, the longer it will last. White Flour will last 1-2 years (whole wheat flour is not as long; about a couple of months) before it goes rancid. Oil is fine if you keep it cool for a couple of years. Here is a chart for the storage life of some items.

Self-rising flour won't last as long; anything that has shortening (like muffin mixes or Bisquick) and baking powder and soda doesn't last as long. I just read that baking powder and soda can go rancid in 6 months, but mine went rancid recently and I had it a couple of years; it didn't leaven as well, though, when it was older. I got some new baking powder and there was a big difference in the height of my biscuits.

White sugar will last 30 years or more. While you put oxygen packets in with other things for long-term storage, do NOT put them in sugar; your sugar will be rock hard if you do.

Brown sugar is made of molasses and white sugar. You can store both of those and make your own brown sugar if you want, but it is cheaper to buy brown sugar than molasses. You can store brown sugar in an airtight container with a little terra cotta piece inside. Someone gave me one; it's a little piece of terra cotta shaped like a bear (About $3.50). I think you could use a regular tiny terra cotta saucer for lots less (about $0.35). You soak it in hot water for about 30-60 minutes. Then you bury it in your container of sugar. It will soften hard brown sugar, and it will keep your other brown sugar soft. I am so glad to have one of these; it is wonderful. I keep about 6 pounds in a plastic container at a time like this; the others I keep in bags and add to the container as it gets low. You have to soak the terra cotta in water about once a month for it to keep being effective.

How much do you need?

If you use the food storage calculator, it will give you minimal amounts to keep your family alive for a year. For regular eating, you will need more than that--about three times as much, I've found out (especially three times the oil).

What do you store grains in?

I have mine in storage buckets--go to my website on the Grains page. There are three places there that sell grains and food-grade buckets. You want that kind; not the buckets from Home Depot (the plastic is not safe for storing food for a long time).

I ordered my grains in the buckets (I spent a bit more and ordered mine in mylar bags in the buckets) from Walton Feed. I got old-fashioned oats, hard red wheat, hard white wheat, powdered milk, etc in the 6 gallon buckets. I also ordered dried carrots, celery, and pearled barley. I ordered extra buckets and Gamma Seal lids, and a tool--a bucket opener. I also got water barrels for emergency water storage. The bucket opener will open the water barrels too.

You can also store food in #10 cans, though if you live in a real humid area, the buckets will last longer.

If you need more space, 16 buckets will fit under a twin bed. You can replace the box frame under the mattress with buckets if you want, and just cover it with a bed skirt.

Why is wheat so important?

Stored properly, wheat can last 30 years. If you have wheat, you can make a total meal out of it--whole wheat buns, with a gluten patty (made from wheat) and wheat sprouts on it.

Some people are concerned about healthy food versus frugality. Is it possible to have both?

Yes, it is. And no, it isn’t. It depends on your budget. But there are some things you can do.

If you want organic food for cheap, grow your own and learn about organic gardening. You can still use organic sprays and fertilizers.

There may come a point, though, where it's more important to have something to eat than if it's the healthiest food.

That said, though--you can store wheat berries and grind your own wheat. You can also store white flour if you like white bread (I do!) and if you don't have the money for a wheat grinder, this is the cheapest way to get started with food storage. Look at the stores for the big bags of flour (and rice) and buy those giant bags. You will want to get some buckets to store it in to keep the rodents and bugs out. Don't store your buckets on the floor; get them up a little off the floor to keep it dry underneath.

You don't need to store sugar cereal or Poptarts. You can store oats and wheat (and/or flour) instead.

Your pasta can be whole wheat. Be aware that whole wheat pasta does not have a shelf life as long as white pasta.

Canning your own fruits and vegetables ensures that you know what goes into them. If you can grow your own, it's even better financially.

I canned pears for a week to get the pears that you see in my pantry. I stayed up late that week canning, too. It would be different if I had children big enough to help, but right now I assign them to play with the little ones while I can. (Canning time is our school break. We don't have spring break; we have a break in the fall while I can). We will eat those two shelves of pears in a year; it is 7 boxes of pears from the grocery store. I bought them on sale at .50 a pound (the year before they were .25 a pound). I went to the produce manager (who ended up asking the store manager) to order me 7 boxes the first day of the sale. They came in on Friday morning. I don't can on Sundays. I started canning Monday morning and canned all week. The last day of canning, when the fruit is getting mushy, I make baby food and pear sauce (same thing). You can do the same thing with peaches and apples, etc. It took more than 25 pounds of sugar to can those pears. Please put lots of sugar in your storage. It is possible to can without sugar, but it is so much tastier with sugar.

What do I do? I store wheat and have a wheat grinder, and I store white flour as well. I don't buy fruits and vegetables from the store; I grow as much as I can in my garden and buy the rest as frugally as possible.

Donna asked me how many fridges and freezers I have. Right now, I just have a fridge/freezer combo in my kitchen. That's it. I used to have a second fridge/freezer in my garage, but it died. A second fridge/freezer is really helpful for a large family. When whole chickens go on sale for 59 cents a pound, you can stock up (same with other meats). If you don’t have a second one, don’t despair! Do learn to can, however, so that you can put food aside that you’ve grown and got on sale at prices that are only that low once a year.

The most important thing you can do to ensure food for your family is to plant as much as possible in your own yard. Put fruit trees in your yard--as many as you can fit. Buy semi-dwarf varieties so that you have different kinds of fruit ripening at different times of the year. Learn what grows where you live and be diligent this year in getting your garden in. Do not delay. You will be thankful for it.

Yesterday I ate lettuce and green onions from my garden. For $1, you can buy a packet of lettuce seeds that will plant you many heads of lettuce—less than one head of lettuce will cost you at the grocery store.

That’s how I’ve stocked my pantry and put food on our table. And God is so good; look at all that He has given us!

*Check out Brandy's garden and what she's been feeding her family for the last two years here!
You can also go to her Home Page at this link! Look at her beautiful pictures!

Monday, February 23, 2009

Gratituesday...God's goodness....



Living on the frugal side of life means everything is budgeted and even when extra comes in, it quickly gets budgeted!
Well, this past week, enough was finally able to be 'budgeted' for some new wheat!
Woo Hoo!
I've been out of it for months now and honestly, I'm quite spoiled to it!
God is so good to send a way for extra things in the budget!
And I honestly think that waiting on Him, makes us appreciate what He brings, all the more!
For more about Gratituesday, visit Laura's!

Sunday, February 22, 2009

Monday's Menu............

This week looks like it may hold a real treat on the 'blog menu'!
It looks like Brandy, The Prudent Homemaker, will have her guest post ready and jam-packed with lots and lots of tips on how to stock a pantry!! WooHoo!
(And some tips on frugal living!)
I hope you all will come back and read along!
***
But meal time menu plans are as follows:
SUNDAY:
*kid's choice***Sloppy Joe Cups, broccoli, pear sauce, biscuits and jelly***2 Hot chicks and all their fixin's
snack: black and blue berry smoothie! and leftover Chocolate Walnut Muffins
MONDAY:
*soaked oats ***Chicken Soup (from leftovers) Amish Bread***Turkey Patties, potato wedges, speckled butter beans
TUESDAY:
*kid's choice***Beans, potatoes, cornbread***Chili
WEDNESDAY:
*Scottish Soaked Oats*** Chili, smoothies*** 5 Ways
THURSDAY:
*Soaked Corn Grits***Chicken Souffle, purple hull peas, Make Its Own Crust Pumpkin Pie*** Fish, brown rice, broccoli, Cranberry Crunch
FRIDAY:
*Creamy Rice*** Ground Beef Pie, mashed potatoes, green peas ***Turkey Patties, green beans, corn
SATURDAY:
*kid's choice**TBA
****Click HERE for more Menu Plans!****

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Snow, cold, sickness, etc got you home-bound today?
Here's a great site for some old-fashioned preaching!
You can listen and watch entire sermons!
Just click on the blue links.

Saturday, February 21, 2009

To Teach or Not to Teach..........

That is the question!

I've read where some say that we shouldn't teach our children about 'current events'!
I personally couldn't disagree more.

I have six children, as many of you know and the oldest is 16 and 1/2 (he would want me to be sure to include that 1/2!). I have always used current events to 'teach' my children. I have found it fun and very profitable!

I can teach them about other's silly thinking without appearing to gossip, for one!
You know, "What was wrong with that statement?" Those kinds of questions! You
can't say that about their aunt! :-)

And I often do this! --Nearly daily!

With the recent election, I was able to teach them more about how government was supposed to be run, than I have ever been able to before! We've been able to look at some historical documents and statements and see what the Founding Fathers meant to happen. Then we've been able to learn what current injustices were being passed like popcorn!Boom! Pop! Pow! Bam!
:-)

Now, that said, I want to remind you that what you don't teach them--- the world will!!!!! It will be taught by television(haven't you seen the commercials on the kid's channels lately?), movies, radio, books, news, magazines, etc. They will be approached by people in their colleges, working environments, in McDonald's even! And those people will try, mostly through ignorant and uneducated comments, to sway your children's thinking.

In the past year, here's some things that MY family has been exposed to:
to me: "You don't really believe that do you? Come on!" (as though I would succumb to their insults and belittling)
to my children: "Okay, but you know the earth may not make it much longer."
to my children: "Well they're teaching us in school that Global Warming IS real."
to my children: "You better eat while you can, because the climate is about to change and the earth is going to lose like 2/3 of it's food production." (honestly!)
to my husband: "That guy got mad at me 'cuz o' my opinion. I just told him that Sarah Palin was a *?#@*!!" (by a cashier at the gas station)
to me: "Vote Democratic! Be part of the solution!" (in the grocery store by the cashier!)

So, to teach current events is 100% necessary to me in this current day! I don't want them being told what to think by the world...but I want them being taught TO THINK by me! :-)
**And mothers, remember this verse: Prov 29:15 .....but a child left to himself bringeth his mother to shame.
Don't leave your child to 'himself' on these issues and don't wait on anyone else to do it!
-just my opinion-

Salmon I'm-afraid-so

This is the name my kids gave to this dish because they said "I'm afraid of what mom's gonna put in our food next!" ...They actually like this dish very well. Even eating seconds! And it is like Alfredo, sorta. I baked 2 salmon fillet pieces.
Then flaked them apart with a folk.
(You could use canned as well, or chicken, or shrimp...or even tuna!)
Most Frugal Sauce
I made a white sauce;
with several cups of milk, salt, pepper, 1/4 cup butter, a couple of shakes of basil and parsley, 1 cup of Parmesan cheese, and 4 T cornstarch beat into about 2 cups of water, then stirred in and heated until thickened.

*****
Not-So-Frugal Sauce
In 1/4 cup butter saute1 medium onion and 2 cloves minced garlic
Add 16 oz cream cheese and half-cup of evaporated milk, stir until melted.
Stir in: 1 T basil, 3 to 4 turns of cracked peppercorns, 2 1/2 t salt, 3/4 cup Parmesan, 1 1/2 cups of milk, 1 1/2 cups half and half.
Toss in meat, if using.
Stir until thick and remove from heat.
 Pour over cooked angel hair.


(*This usually makes enough for supper one night and lunch for the next day!)

There's more than one way to get them to eat salmon!!!
Luke 24:42  And they gave him a piece of a broiled fish, and of an honeycomb.

Blueberry Cottage Pudding

This is another old recipe from the Smoky Mountain Cookbook that I've told you about. I changed some of the ingredients for more healthy ones and served it for breakfast, then made a powdered sugar icing and served the rest for our after lunch 'sweet'.

Also, this is more like bread pudding than 'pudding'. It's very moist but not mushy.

1/4 c butter, melted
1 cup pure cane sugar
2 whole eggs
2 1/4 cup wheat flour
1 c milk
4 t baking powder
1/2 t salt
4 cups (you could go with 2 to 3 cups) blueberries

Use one cup of flour to toss blueberries in. Combine remaining ingredients, folding in blueberries last. Spread in a 9x13 sprayed dish and bake at 350; 35 to 40 minutes.

(This is not super sweet so if you fix this for breakfast and your kids are used to sugary stuff, you may want to adjust the sweetness or frost with cream cheese/powdered sugar frosting as per my Whole Wheat Blueberry Cake. )
(Tip: I baked the night before and reheated in the morning!)

Friday, February 20, 2009

A snack for kids or rabbits.....


Today for the little munching munchkins, we fixed up a bowl of organic carrot sticks with a bowl of their favorite dip and a bowl of my 'refrigerator pickles' which they loved (now they've been in the fridge for several months!
(There's several versions of these pickles on Cooks.com.
I made them as per my neighbor. Filled a jar with sliced
cucumbers, about 1/2 to 3/4 cup vinegar, an onion sliced up,
and I tossed in a few shakes of dried dill and a pinch of minced
garlic. Top with filtered water. Store in the fridge; the longer
they are there, the better they get!)

Oilllll eeee Oliiiiive

That's something like what I heard when I brought in this can of Extra Virgin Olive Oil!
You know? From the uhmm...The Godfather? (Then I had to hear about the scene where one of these cans was brought to so an so, then he was given a kiss, and then...well...anyway..)

I had the boys figure up my savings on this big can of oil.
One of the normal brands that I buy (in a small bottle) is 22.6 cents an ounce.
(Coupons can sometimes be found, so that would lower it some.)
This can was 18.4 cents an ounce. (1o1 ounces)
The savings = $4.24!
Not bad!

TIP: look at those little labels on the shelves that tell the price. Often they will tell you the price per ounce as well!!

Coconut Chocolate Chip Muffins



3 cups whole wheat flour

2 1/2 t baking powder

3/4 t salt

1 1/3 cup pure cane sugar

2 eggs

1/2 to 3/4 cup shredded, chipped, or flaked coconut

3/4 (or more) cup chocolate chips

1/4 cup melted coconut oil or butter

1 1/2 cups milk

Blend well. Bake at 425 until golden Approx. 12 to 15 minutes. Makes 24!

You can freeze the extras or just keep them in an airtight container. We eat muffins for our 'sweet' after a meal, at breakfast, and/or as a snack.

The Ketchup Quiz at my house....

I think I may have mentioned a couple of my kids' love for this sugar-laden condiment....and I also know that it's not the healthiest thing on the block. I have tried the NT version and it floated like a rock!

So....anyway.... back to the mess in the picture!
I can buy those smaller bottles of ketchup for .89 (unless there's a really good sale and/or I have a coupon) and the larger bottles in the pic for 1.29. (again, unless there's a great sale ...but this time of year, not likely)

So....
I bought this giant can for under $4. Like $3.80.
How much did it fill?
It filled 2 of the .89 bottles and two of the $1.29 bottles, which would have totaled $4.36!
Saved .56.
Hmm, wonder if I could find an even cheaper can somewhere to save even more!
(***Special note to moms. When several of my kids were little, they had a terrible time with ketchup. If I didn't wipe it right off their little faces, it would nearly blister their skin. It also often caused diaper rashes! Yeah, I know!...but just in case you ever wonder :-)

Thursday, February 19, 2009

Old Fashioned Lemon Meringue Pie

This was before DH got ahold of it.
This is after!

This is a wonderful, old-fashion, and frugal recipe. I got it from an old "Smoky Mountain Cookbook" that I found at the Goodwill. It is a treasure!

1 baked pie shell

1 c sugar
1/4 t salt
5 T cornstarch
2 c water
3 egg yolks
5 T lemon juice (Yes, fresh! right out of the lemon!)
2 t grated lemon zest
2 T butter
Mix sugar, salt, cornstarch, and water. Whisk together and cook in a double boiler. (I don't have one so I use a big pot and a smaller one and I hold the one over the other.) Continue to stir, when mixture begins to thicken, stir in butter, then lemon juice and zest. Blend well and beat in the egg yolks. Cook for one more minute. Cool slightly before pouring into baked pie shell.

Make meringue with the 3 egg whites, beating until sharp peaks, then add 6 T sugar.
Spread meringue on the lemon filling and sprinkle with 1/2 t lemon zest if desired.
Bake at 350 until lightly browned.
Cool before slicing.

This pie could easily be made for about $1.50!
For more Frugal Fridays posts, click HERE!

Frugal things for the house...

I'm sure you've all heard about Habitat for Humanity.
But, if you're like me, you may not have heard of their "Re-store".

This is a place, usually a warehouse, where donations are set up for sale at a discounted rate as well as some leftover yard sale items that are donated.

This may be a way to get those needed items for home that the budget may not be making enough room to buy new! I just found it and I'm hoping/praying that we can find a cheap dryer there!

Click HERE to go their site and type in your zip code to locate your local Habitat for Humanity and to find out if it has a Re-store.

Wednesday, February 18, 2009

Soil test tip....

I found this little tip in various places on the net, including The Dollar Stretcher.com.

"Test the soil by putting a drop of vinegar in a teaspoon or so. If it fizzes, it's too alkaline. Then test it by putting in baking soda mixed with a little water. If it fizzes, it's too acidic."

As we are beginning to feel Spring-ish, I thought this might come in handy!

Please Stay Tuned....

I have asked Brandy from The Prudent Homemaker to do a special guest post.

Remember me showing you her slide show of her pantry???

Well, I've asked her to share more about how and when she stocks it! Brandy has wonderful tips and ideas and she truly is a Prudent Homemaker! You should hear about her garden!

Please see her featured recipe! You won't believe how beautiful they look! I hope to try my hand at them soon and see how it tastes! :-)

I hope you will be watching for this special post! I know she will bless you with her ideas and suggestions!

(She also is a home schooling mother of 5!)

One Frugal Lady....

This week, What's Working for Me, is reading about how others save and live the Frugal Life!

My husband sent me a link from Fox News that had done a special report on this lady's blog.

Living on $1,500 for One Year -and by the way, she lives in New England! Not the easiest place to live on a frugal budget!!

Learning from others! That's what WORKS FOR ME!


(Do you have a 'frugal blog'? Would you post here and link me to it? I would love to learn more from you too!)

Tuesday, February 17, 2009

Kitchen Tip...


OK, I must admit that I'm not the most organized person in the world. I do certainly like organization, but it's not one of my 'gifts'!

But one thing that I've done that's really helped me in the kitchen is to categorize the cabinets.

One is my 'baking cabinet' with all the vanilla, baking powder, baking soda, flours, meals, sugars, etc. (This is my most important cabinet, since it's used most! But it keeps things quick and convenient!)

Another has breakfast cereals and grains.

One has herb teas, milk powders, and empty jars!

The fun part is teaching all the kids where everything goes!!!

For more Kitchen Tip Tuesdays, visit Tammy's Recipes!

Monday, February 16, 2009

Gratituesday....



A few months ago, my exercise machine broke, yep kerplunk! (There's 6 kids in the house and no one really knows how it happened! It's a mystery!)

DH was fretful, wanting to get me another one, but I just kept saying; "we need to wait".

Well, a couple of days ago, he set in to cleaning out the garage and dug out two old lamps with leather shades. (Don't ask...not my purchase...remember: I'm the frugal one around here!- usually :-) Well, he was just going to toss them out! (think it not strange that I just reminded you that I'm the frugal one!) Well, me being the pack rat that I am....I mean frugal mom that I am, I told him not to get rid of them!

Before the night was over, some one sent me an email wanting to get rid of an exercise machine and said that they would take the best offer, or trade for just about anything! --The Lamps!! Well, I was worried that they might not want them because one of the lamps had a not-so-nice crack! But, come to find out, they really wanted the shades! ('magine that?)

Within a couple of days, they had the lamps and I had the exercise machine! Woo-hoo! Isn't God sooooo Good! It pays to wait on Him!

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Sunday, February 15, 2009

MONDAY'S MENU.....

SUNDAY:kid's choice***bean burritos, nachos, salsa, guacamole****Spiral-baked ham, mashed potatoes, brussel sprouts

MONDAY:kid's choice***turkey patties, baked potato wedges, salad****Baked Fish, sauteed squash, brown rice, slaw, banana nut muffins(using the basics of this recipe)

TUESDAY:soaked steel cut oats***Cheeseburger (wheat) macaroni, salad, fried bananas****salmon patties, mashed potatoes, purple hull peas

WEDNESDAY:Brown Rice and pear sauce****Sausage Quiche, applesauce, slaw****Roast, potatoes, carrots,

THURSDAY:kid's choice****chicken, fries, black bean salsa******Frugal Meat Dish, green beans, corn

FRIDAY: soaked oatmeal****potato soup and cornbread*****Turkey-Beef-Tot Casserole, Whole wheat rolls

SATURDAY:kid's choice****Creamy Chicken Enchiladas, mexy beans***TBA


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FAR OFF, O GOD, AND YET MOST NEAR

by Henry H Barber

Far off, O God, and yet most near,
Unseen, yet shining clear in all,
Thy presence moves, Thy ways appear,
In system’s rise and sparrow’s fall.

Thy purpose through the ages ran,
Thy Word Thy prophets bore abroad,
Thy love became a Son of Man,
To make men with Him sons of God.

Our eyes Thy loveliness discern,
Where nature weaves Thy wondrous dress,
And in sweet human lives we learn
The beauty of Thy holiness.

Our lives within Thy being stand,
Our sciences omniscience prove,
Thy law is but Thy clasping hand,
Thine order is Thy perfect love.

Saturday, February 14, 2009

Think it not strange....

On a day that supposed to be filled with love, I can't help but to be reminded of a verse that speaks of a lack of love in relation to this current world: John 15:19 If ye were of the world, the world would love his own: but because ye are not of the world, but I have chosen you out of the world, therefore the world hateth you.

I want to encourage you, that if you have those types of issues in your life, that you are loved by God! You are chosen, out of the world, by Him!

Now the strife you are facing may not come directly as a confrontation on your Christianity, but there may yet be a 'hatred' or 'strong dislike'. Again, think it not strange! See here:
1 Pet 4:12 Beloved, think it not strange concerning the fiery trial which is to try you, as though some strange thing happened unto you:1 Pet 4:13 But rejoice, inasmuch as ye are partakers of Christ's sufferings; that, when his glory shall be revealed, ye may be glad also with exceeding joy.

Did you notice that very first word in those verses? Be-loved!?!??!!!!
You are loved!!!
Now, the rest of the verse: Rejoice! You will be made glad when his glory is revealed!
Take heart, and wait...2 Th 3:5 And the Lord direct your hearts into the love of God, and into the patient waiting for Christ.
If you have His love...you have all you need!
Rom. 8:39 Says that nothing can separate you from His love!
2 Cor 13:14 The grace of the Lord Jesus Christ, and the love of God, and the communion of the Holy Ghost, be with you all. Amen.

HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY..........

HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY!!!!!!

Prov 15:17 Better is a dinner of herbs where love is, than a stalled ox and hatred therewith.
Prov 17:9 He that covereth a transgression seeketh love; but he that repeateth a matter separateth very friends.
Jer 31:3 ............. Yea, I have loved thee with an everlasting love: therefore with lovingkindness have I drawn thee.
John 15:9 As the Father hath loved me, so have I loved you: continue ye in my love.
John 15:10 If ye keep my commandments, ye shall abide in my love; even as I have kept my Father's commandments, and abide in his love.John 15:11 These things have I spoken unto you, that my joy might remain in you, and that your joy might be full.John 15:12 This is my commandment, That ye love one another, as I have loved you.John 15:13 Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends.

Friday, February 13, 2009

Brown Rice Goulash

This is another recipe from Miserly Moms .

Simple Goulash
1 pound ground meat ($1.59)
4 cups cooked rice (approx. 2 cups uncooked) (approx. .25 if bought in bulk)
1 can tomato soup (.50 for store brand)
1 can cream of mushroom soup (.50-.75 for store brand)
4 slices of American cheese (.25)

In large skillet brown ground meat with salt and pepper to taste. Drain fat. Turn heat to med./low. Add cooked rice and both soups. Mix well and then smooth out in skillet. Top with slices of cheese and heat until cheese starts to slightly bubble.

 Ground beef is one of the most frugal and versatile meal starters that I know.On a tight budget, 1 $10 package of ground beef could make supper for about a week!

*Served here with a simple slaw and green peas. Total meal cost approx. $5.50 to feed 8 with leftovers!

A frugal meat-dish....


I made this for lunch today.
I got the recipe from Miserly Moms...lots of frugal recipes there!

2 cups of Bisquick mixed with enough water to make a spreadable dough.With wet hands, spread the dough into a sprayed 9x13.

Top with 1 lb of browned ground beef seasoned with garlic powder and onion powder. Drizzle with ketchup or a drained can of tomatoes.

(I also added onions.)

Blend 1 cup of sour cream and 1 cup of mayo, then add in shredded cheese. Spread on top of ground beef. Bake at 350 for 40 minutes.

(I think the meat mixture needs something but overall, it was a thumbs up around here and quick and frugal!)

*Served here with a simple spinach salad and chips with guacamole.

Valentine's Story...


One thing that I've always tried to do with my kids is tell them why we celebrate certain holidays. This year, we will once again, go over the story of St. Valentine. (Well, actually, the oldest ones have heard it so many times that they will be given the chance to tell it for me!)
Here is one site with one version of the story. This site also has several fun looking recipes to add to the celebration. There's also a link there that will tell you about the traditions of other countries.
I also really love Brandy's pretty Valentine cookies and may bake a batch of them this year.
Sonshine has put together a great list of Valentine's Day Unit Study Links that would be super fun!
All of these links (and there are so many more) can help you have a fun and frugal Valentine's Day with your Little Sweethearts!
Please click HERE for more Frugal Fridays!
Happy Valentine's Day
hope you make some great
memories with your families!!!

Thursday, February 12, 2009

Have ya noticed the new Amazon Store on here?

In the side bar on the right, please notice that I've added an a-store!

I've picked items that I hoped some of you might be interested in, since many have been discussed here. AND YES, I do make a little from Amazon for sending them customers so YOU would also be blessing ME by your shopping!


......just wanted you to know that it's there -and why!

Also, if you are looking for something specific and would like to purchase it through my store you can email me your request and I would be happy to add it, if its available! (I should be able to offer anything that is on Amazon to you!)


My email: thechildren@twlakes.net

Wednesday, February 11, 2009

Who needs TV drama...

...when you can just go to Walmart?!!!?!!!

The other night, we were standing in line at the check out. There was a woman in front of us with a buggy load of stuff and a man in front of her who was checking out. He happened to be using an EBT card and trying to buy energy drinks with them, I think. He was discussing this out loud with the cashier because Walmart won't allow those to be purchased with that card while some other stores will, apparently.

Well, the lady in front of me chimed in to him and told him that those drinks were in a category with alcohol. And I didn't hear what else she said but the cashier said she got kinda smart with him.

Well, then he turns to her and says, "Thank you for getting into my business." To which she replies, "You made it my business when you chose to hold me up in line knowing that you could not purchase that product but yet you made her check anyways."

Well he finally says, "Well, thanks for getting into my business. God bless you." And she made a comment about religion I think. Then he walked off. Less than a minute later, he came back into the store to the Service Desk. Within another minute, the manager was standing there telling the cashier that he had came to 'tell on the customer'. The cashier then told the woman, still in front of me, that she might want to wait a few minutes to leave because he seemed pretty upset with her.

Well, by the time I got checked out and was walking out, he was there loading his things into a taxi talking about kicking her mm-hmm (Yeah, you know) in front of his buddies and the cab driver.

The whole while my kids are looking at me in amazement and wonder. I'm whispering "wait til we get to the van". Because kids can say crazy things about- well, crazy things, and I was just praying that they wouldn't say a word!

This, my friends, is one big reason why I only like to shop once a month!

Tuesday, February 10, 2009

Brandy's Fudge....


This was a huge hit!

What a great treat after a hard day's work! The kids all plugged away at their homework today. Kyler even did 3 phonics lessons in one day!!! He wants sooo bad to read like all the 'big kids'.

But a hard day's work should be rewarded and what better way to do it, than fudge?!!?!!

To get the recipe, just click here to go to The Prudent Homemaker! Brandy has lots of other great (and frugal) recipes on her site, so hope you'll look around!!!

Tomato Salad-


2 large tomatoes, diced
1 small onion, sliced thinly

Dressing:
2 T vinegar (I used Red Wine Vinegar, but any kind will work)
1 1/2 T cane sugar (regular white sugar would work too)
1 1/2 T Flax Oil (you could use other oils, but I sneak this in where I can!)
-opt. dash of dried basil
Toss and serve!
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This 'red salad' is a perfect side for your Valentine's Day Meal.
(here's our sweethearts table from last year and our red jelly-filled thumbprint cookies!
Oh and, the Hot Fudge Pudding Cake that sweetened our Valentines last year!)

8 Grain Sweet Muffins


(*served here with my cheesy tuna noodles and tomato salad)

I buy Bob's Red Mill cereal/grains from time to time just for something different! These are like coarse ground cornmeal muffins, except they are sweet!
I make these with the 8-grain mix!

1 cup of 8-grain cereal
1 cup plain flour
2 t baking powder
1/2 t salt
1 egg
2 T melted butter
3/4 cup cane sugar
approx. 3/4 cup buttermilk (I didn't measure, but you need enough to make a batter that's barely pourable!)
Bake at 425 12 to 18 minutes until lightly browned!
My kids loved them with Joy's Sour Cherry Jam!!

Unlikely sources....

This evening, I snuck out to finish up my once-a-month-shopping.

I always try to squeeze in a run to the Dollar General Market. There's several things that I can get there cheaper-than any place else in town right now. (We do have an Aldi coming! I can hardly wait!!)

They have an isle in the back that I sometimes skip if I'm in a super big hurry but tonight, there were little treasures there for me! I found herb teas back there for $1 a box! Chamomile and Peppermint! Mmmm! I've kept postponing my order to the Bulk Herb Store so I was delighted to find these nice little treats, tucked away, just for me! ;-)

It's always a good idea to scout out your local stores and find out which isle they put the markdowns on and go through it every time you visit that store. Some stores even have a markdown section in their cold food area! (We found Egg Nog at Christmas for $1 a bottle!!)
--here's to keepin' it frugal!!!

Monday, February 9, 2009

Bulking Up to Keep it Frugal.....



My kitchen tip this week is two-fold!
First,
Keep things in 'baby steps' when making changes in your kitchen.
Are you trying to go 'more healthy'? Baby steps may work best on your pocket book and your family's approval.
Second,
Bulk Up!
A great secret to a kitchen that keeps the home-bodies fed is always having food around!
Buying in bulk can save $$$ and, it helps insure that there is always something on hand to whip up in a hurry!
Acquaint yourself with basic quick-bread and/or muffin recipes that can be mixed and baked quickly for a snack for little ones or if a surprise guest stops by. Quick breads and muffins can stave off any appetite with a cup of coffee or tea!
(Many muffins and quick breads will store well in the freezer and can be warmed in just a few minutes in the oven wrapped in foil!)
Buy bulk hamburger meat and a few other pantry staples when they are on a good sale and keep a few in the back of the cupboard for those "every body's starving I gotta hurry" meals or when someone unexpected drops by!
It will keep things frugal and help you to be more hospitable as well.
It will save you from ordering take-out and even a quick run to the store can cost a fortune if you are out of a lot of basics. So, buy bulk, on sale, and be prepared!
(For the best stocked pantry that I've ever seen click here and watch the slide show! You'll be amazed and hungry!)
***FOR MORE KITCHEN TIPS AND SOME GREAT RECIPES, VISIT TAMMY'S RECIPES***

It's Gratituesday!!! (numbers don't count)


This Gratituesday comes at a strange and mysterious time of year.....tax preparation time!

While most are excited about how much they are getting back...and a few maybe on the other end (I do hope not for any of you).......I'm standing simply stunned and amazed at our God!
Why you ask.... When I see the numbers at the end of the year of how much or how little flowed through our home, I'm often just wow-ed at how God is able to sustain us in spite of everything!
He is able to stretch things, bring gifts(like pears....'cept I mooched those-as per Laura's advice), bring in hand-me-downs, and have shoes last 40 years! (Deut. 29:5)

I'm once again, so thankful for the Lord's Provision! I'm so thankful that numbers have nothing to do with His provision! I'm so thankful for His faithfulness and mercy!

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Sausage Quiche...another frugal lunch for the books...net...blog


You know, quiche is realllly not a big deal. I mean, it sounds like a big deal because of it's fancy name, but it's not --- Really!
I beat up 6 eggs,
scooped a cup of light Bisquick in,
1/4 cup chopped green onions,
about 3/4 cup of milk,
about 2/3 cup shredded cheese,
and 1 lb cooked sausage
and poured it into a spayed 9x13 and baked it until it was lightly golden. (400degrees) (about $3 tops)

Then added the spinach salad (about $1.50) and my homemade free pears (free). Oh and a batch of muffins, and they couldn't be anymore than like .50 to .75!

(Still within my $5!:-)
-and again...it's easy and quick!

Sunday, February 8, 2009

Judgment: Alone with my Conscience

(Moody read this at the close of a sermon called Hell.)
I sat alone with my conscience,
In a place where time was o'er.
And we talked of my former living,
In the land of the evermore.
And I felt I should have to answer,
The question it put to me.
And to face the answer and question,
Throughout an eternity.

The ghosts of forgotten actions,
Came floating before my sight.
And things that I thought had perished,
Were alive with a terrible might.
And the vision of life's dark record,
Was an awful thing to face.
Alone with my conscience sitting,
In that solemnly silent place.

And I thought of a far away warning,
Of a sorrow that was to be mine.
In a land that then was the future,
But now is the present time.
And I thought of my former thinking,
Of the Judgment day to be.
But sitting alone with my conscience,
Seemed Judgment enough for me.

And I wondered if there was a future,
To this land beyond the grave.
But no one gave me an answer,
And no one came to save.
Then I felt that the future was present,
And the present would never go by.
For it was but the thought of a future,
Become an eternity.

Then I woke from my timely dreaming,
And the vision passed away.
And I knew the far away warning,
Was a warning of yesterday.
And I pray that I may not forget it,
In this land before the grave.
That I may not cry in the future,
And no one come to save.

I have learned a solemn lesson,
Which I ought to have known before.
And which though I learned it dreaming,
I hope to forget no more.

So I sit alone with my conscience,
In the place where the years increase.
And I try to fathom the future,
In the land where time will cease.
And I know of the future judgment,
How dreadful soe'er it be.
That to sit alone with my conscience,
Will be Judgment enough for me.

Far from God, Away from Jesus....

by Robert Harkness

Far from God, away from Jesus,
Straying in the paths of sin,
Knowing not God’s full salvation,
Jesus calls you midst earth’s din.
Refrain
Come, ’tis Jesus calls you;
Come, without delay.
He is willing now to save you;
Come, O come today.

Why continue in your roaming?
Jesus bids you come today.
Mercy’s offer still is open;
Why not come without delay?
Refrain
How much longer will you tarry?
How much longer will you roam?
Listen, Jesus calls you to Him;
Will you not at once come home?
Refrain
Can you stay away from Jesus
With eternity in view?
Can you still reject His mercy
When you hear His call so true?
Refrain
You may almost come to Jesus,
But “almost” will never save;
For the soul that “fully” trusts Him
On the cross His life He gave.
Refrain

Saturday, February 7, 2009

MONDAY'S MENU........


SUNDAY:kid's choice**burgers** chicken, salad, Honey-wheat Choc. Chip muffins

MONDAY:kid's choice***sausage quiche, salad, muffins, pear sauce***brisket, potatoes, brussel sprouts

TUESDAY:soaked oat groats*** Tuna Helper Scratch, 4 grain muffins, tomato salad***chicken, seasoned potato wedges, salad, slaw

WEDNESDAY: soaked corn grits*** Brown Rice Goulash, green peas, slaw, No-bake cookies** Chicken Fajitas, No-bake cookies

THURSDAY:Whole Wheat Blueberry Cake***Baked Salmon Fillets, purple hull peas, sauteed squash, leftover cake***Italian Baked Chicken, creamy whole grain pasta, broccoli

FRIDAY: kid's choice***Taco Soup, guacamole and chips with salsa*** Potato Hotdish, corn, green peas

SATURDAY: Pink Coconut Rice***chicken and potato wedges, Sweetheart cookies (above)*** Spiral Ham for my sweetheart, mashed potatoes, green peas, SweetHeart Cake (cook a regular cake in 1 square pan and one round pan, split the round cake and place against the square cake to form a heart, place on foiled cardboard and frost)
FOR MORE MENU PLANS CLICK HERE!!!

Fried Bananas.....


These are great ANYTIME!

And so easy, your kids can fix them!

Peel and slice bananas, fry/grill in the butter until slightly browned, place on plate and drizzle with honey!

Yummy!

Thursday, February 5, 2009

Herbs 101: Peppermint


Ahh Peppermint!
I love to keep peppermint around mainly because it covers the bitter taste of some of the teas that I use. But peppermint tea alone, is a great treat!
One of my children who won't drink herb teas will always drink a cup of peppermint tea, anytime! And yes, he will even ask for it!
Peppermint has long been used to soothe tummy troubles. Old-timers used to make mild teas for colicky babies. It helps with indigestion and bloating. That's likely why lots of antacids use peppermint to flavor their medicines! It's also good for nausea.
It is said that it can also help to reduce fever.
And it is high in several nutrients according to The Bulk Herb Store's notes on it.
Some places say that it will even cure a headache!
And you thought peppermints after a meal were just to freshen your breath! ;-)
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**Some say it's a good sub for coffee because it is a stimulant.**
(I say it's stimulating, but it's not caffeine!;-)

Wednesday, February 4, 2009

Herbs 101: Rosemary


Rosemary is often included when I place my orders for herbs with The Bulk Herb Store.
It is probably my favorite herb to cook with because it seems to work with anything! No, I don't usually add it to my tea unless someone has a cold or cough. If someone is sick, I often will add it in the mix.
It is not only used as a cough and cold remedy, it's used for a number of female problems, brain power, fighting depression, nervous fatigue, and several other things.
Recent studies that I've read suggest that it is useful in fighting cancer as well. It seems that it may help to block carcinogens.
But all around, the flavor is unbeatable and it goes well with poultry, beef, soups, and even breads! I add to almost every savory dish that I fix.

Xylitol..


Xylitol is working hard for me these days!
My poor children have been blessed with some DNA that carries dental issues!
This week we learned that our xylitol seems to be helping some of our troubles.
One of my sons has had 2 teeth on 'watch' for several months, but the good news is that they have gotten NO worse. (A true record-breaker for this kiddo!) The only thing that I've been doing differently is making the kids take a pinch of xylitol after they eat anything.
I've also tried with a little success to make my own 'mints'.
For more info about xylitol, visit Dr Ellie

Tuesday, February 3, 2009

Multi-task=multi-time


Do you ever have like 5 or 6 things cooking at once and are feeling extremely uptight about the thoughts of burning something while stirring something else?
Yeah, me too! (and yes, I have burned a number of things in my kitchen lifetime!)
Well, I have found that using multiple timers help me to keep the smoke down! I have a timer on the oven, one on the microwave, and one on the fridge....SO,
I FINALLLLLLY
GOT THE BRIGHT IDEA
TO USE THEM ALL AT ONCE!
WOW!
what a breakthrough!
Yes, one timer goes on the meatloaf, one on the lima beans so I don't boil the water off and scorch them, and the third goes to the potatoes so they aren't just thick water!

Gratituesday..seeing fruits of growth


For Christmas, my oldest son was given a gift card for a certain area. He found what he needed from there but wanted to buy something special with what was left. He even made a few phone calls about what and where and how to do this.
Well, the very special part was that HIS extra $ on his card was spent on ME! (sniff, sniff)
The gift was great! It was so perfect and so me! BUT...the best part was seeing this child be so selfless! He could have spent the rest on himself! There's ALWAYS more STUFF to buy!
But nope, he used it to give me a little gift!
I was so thankful to see such generosity as I see my not-so-little boy...growing up! (sniff, sniff, waAAAhhhh:-)
For more about Gratituesday, visit LAURA'S!